shows genuine kindness to others

31

If he doesn’t hyper sexualize me immediately

29

Treats me like a friend rather than a potential romantic partner

29

Not liking Trump

24

Respect! For himself, for others, and for me!

11

Opens/holds the door for other people, smells good, talks well about others, helps others who clearly need help (like they fell or can’t carry something), has clear boundaries, knows what he likes and doesn’t like, has a plan for his life (doesn’t need to be perfect or far along in the plan but wants something to work for)

11

I’m adding genuine female friendships, it’s always important that a guy can have relationships with women that aren’t just sexual or wanting more!

10

eats out (at expensive restaurants and….)

1