Ask Women on Yik Yak | Would it be acceptable to ask someone for feedback after a date? I’ve been on a dozen or so in the last few years and never gotten a second date and I’m concerned there’s something wrong with me.

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Ask Women 1d

Would it be acceptable to ask someone for feedback after a date? I’ve been on a dozen or so in the last few years and never gotten a second date and I’m concerned there’s something wrong with me.

Anonymous 1d

it's not exactly normal but if they already aren't interested it also couldn't really hurr

Anonymous 1d

I don’t think its a looks thing otherwise I prob wouldn’t have gotten the dates in the first place. But I had another girl who I had been texting for weeks tell me she wasn’t interested tonight after our date and idk what to do anymore

Anonymous 1d

On the one hand, awkward as hell. On the other, what do you have to lose?

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OP 1d

I mean you can absolutely ask her if it was something you did but I don’t know if asking if something is wrong with you is a good way of going about it

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#2 1d

hurt**

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strawberry_hair 1d

Haha, of course not the way to word it. Realistically there’s probably not a way to word it in a way that’s not awkward, but I’m sure I could think of something.

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#3 1d

Yeahhhh sorta what I’m thinking. Would just be nice to know if it’s something to do with me. Like i genuinely wish people were just brutally up front and said things like you were weird or not as attractive as I thought or SOMETHING lol