
It 100% depends on the person. If you trust your person and you know they’d put personal boundaries up to not put themselves in a bad situation, I wouldn’t have an issue with it! But if they’ve had wandering eyes in the past or seemed a little “too friendly” before, it’s a no. I just wouldn’t be with anyone like the latter
Trust and insecurity go hand in hand but sacrifice and understanding are also a big part of relationships. I’m a horrible over thinker so I can’t really imagine how a long distance works; basically take my words with a grain of salt. But has he stopped being as responsive, not since getting there, but since he started going out more frequently?