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How do you stop yourself from being in a secret one sided competition with a friend:(
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Anonymous 2d

realize your own insecurities and work on them yourself without taking it out on your friend

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Anonymous 1d

don’t be their friend until you’re secure enough in yourself to not compete.

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Anonymous 2d

“Hey, wanna compete to see who can stack the most Cheerios on a dead rat (or input object of competition here)?”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I have been trying to work on myself and my insecurities but I never take it out on my friend

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

one sided competition is basically taking it out on them because it’ll build resentment and they can’t succeed without you fully proud of them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I fully support my friends and I'm always there for them and want the best for them. I build them up and always back them, it's more of me just comparing myself to them, I've never done anything to hurt them or try and drag them down

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