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Ask Women 10w
Ladies, I’m pretty sure my best friend (F) who has a bf (of 4 years) likes me more than her (I’m a M). He doesn’t do the small things for her but she sees me do the small things for other girls. How do I help without pissing either one off 😭💔 HELP
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Anonymous 10w

This is giving nice guy energy and I really don’t like how this is headed 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

So u think I should just back off from the both of them? I really just want the best for both of them even if I have to walk away.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

It all started because he did nothing for her on v-day but I wrote my girl a hand written letter, got her flowers, all her favorites, and slipped in a stuffed animal we got on our first date so she knew I kept it. Ever since then she just compares him to me and I feel like shit about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

It sounded like you were asking how to save her from the relationship. I would say in your shoes, I’m not comfortable with you comparing your boyfriend to me in that way or smg along those lines

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Yeah I think ur right. I’m not trying to steal her or split them up. I just want out of the middle 😭

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