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Best spot to find my soulmate that isn’t a bar?
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Anonymous 12w

Guy here: like literally anywhere. You’re grocery shopping, at a bookstore, doing whatever idk, see someone attractive or stylish or just with a good vibe, go say what’s up! No harm. But actually the best way is probably through a friend, but no reason not to try everything

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Anonymous 12w

Hang out by the dumpster and wait for them to bring out their garbage

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Anonymous 12w

Mutual friends but also like, try to get out and do fun things that you like, like dnd or trivia or running or dance class. I feel like hobbies are the move because at worst you get better at something and at best you get a gf and you get better at something

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Anonymous 12w

In your dreams

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Anonymous 12w

I don't think there's any particular spot. If you believe in soul mates (nothing wrong with it if you do) you just have to wait and hope.

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Anonymous 12w

I found my soulmate at a bar though… but we met through mutual friends lmao

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Anonymous 12w

call me chronically online but unfortunately the truest connections ive made have been through fanbases online 😭

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Anonymous 11w

Dating apps worked for me and a lot of ppl I know it doesn’t happen overnight it takes months but it’s worth it I think ppl are just quick to give up

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Anonymous 12w

Dating apps? Idk 🤷🏻‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Through mutual friends is top

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

I mean I think just like anything it’s a mixed bag. It probably has a better chance out of the people you meet, but you also will meet far fewer people this way than through cold approaches or apps or something

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

But it worked for you so idk why you’d say anything else

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

Hobbies are def a great way cuz you’ll already have common interests

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