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I’m not sure if it’s because I’ve been single for almost ten months now or if it’s because that was my first relationship but it’s so hard to be interested in dating again. My friends keep encouraging to but I’m just drained. Anyone else feel that way?
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Anonymous 1d

it doesn’t kill you to be single for a bit

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Anonymous 1d

Nothing wrong with just continuing to be single if that’s what you’re feeling. I just got out of my longterm and I honestly don’t feel like doing it again for at least another year

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Anonymous 1d

i typically spend years in between relationships. you don’t need to be interested in dating. honestly i think it’s really beneficial to spend time being content being single. focus on yourself and your personal goals and aspirations. too many ppl treat relationships like an ultimate goal in life before they figure out their own personal life trajectory.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

That’s how I feel. But I think my friends might be getting my head a bit because it’s all they talk about even though none of them are in relationships themselves.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yeah, I emotionally and mentally am not ready to get into a relationship. Like I’ve healed and moved on from the break up but I’m just too drained to start anew with anyone else.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

don’t surround yourself with male centered ppl i promise you’ll feel so much better.. 💔

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