
i get it. i have been overweight most of my life & i had issues dating because i felt like i attracted men i was not attracted to or they treated me like their fetish. glad to have sex with me but wouldn't want to actually BE with me. i was single for a while and took time to be my own best gf! yes i did lose weight but ironically i am at my heaviest now and i am with the best man ever. 🤷♀️ if you feel burnt out don't keep doing the same thing!