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Ask Women 23w
Kinda conflicted about approaching at the bars because sometimes it goes well but some women have been absolutely brutal to my friends who have approached, like one girl actually shoved my friend away who was talking to her friend as if he was a predator
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Anonymous 23w

And he’s like the most inoffensive mild-mannered guy there is

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Anonymous 23w

I think you need to be approachable and overall kind. Being level headed makes women sometimes second guess rejecting u

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23w

This is terrible advice, women don’t take men who are”kind” seriously or they will think you have hidden intentions. Directness and confidence is where it’s at. You need a warrior mentality

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Anonymous 23w

All of human history.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 23w

Bro why do you have to be so dismissive. Its very valid question

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 23w

It took me time to learn you’re correct but it’s very hard for a lot of us to know what do about it exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 23w

“Warrior mentality” please get that manosphere shit outta here omg 😭

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