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Kinda conflicted about approaching at the bars because sometimes it goes well but some women have been absolutely brutal to my friends who have approached, like one girl actually shoved my friend away who was talking to her friend as if he was a predator
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Anonymous 1w

This is why im scared to approach ngl. I can’t think of things to say other than “hi” and asking basics about themselves. Their eyes make my head go empty 😞

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Anonymous 1w

And he’s like the most inoffensive mild-mannered guy there is

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Anonymous 1w

I think you need to be approachable and overall kind. Being level headed makes women sometimes second guess rejecting u

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Anonymous 1w

Damn

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

This is terrible advice, women don’t take men who are”kind” seriously or they will think you have hidden intentions. Directness and confidence is where it’s at. You need a warrior mentality

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Examples please.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

All of human history.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Bro why do you have to be so dismissive. Its very valid question

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

It took me time to learn you’re correct but it’s very hard for a lot of us to know what do about it exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

“Warrior mentality” please get that manosphere shit outta here omg 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I mean like specific examples. What is said/how does one act to have this.

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