Anonymous #1 16w

Yeah but women also hate being approached by guys they don’t like and men would, if nothing else, appreciate it if any woman approached them. Also women would have a much higher success rate. Also I thought we got rid of gender roles? Or do we still keep them when it’s beneficial to women? Personally I like a confident woman too

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Anonymous OP 16w

Whoa that’s a lot of assumptions, first of all you can keep traditional gender roles in your relationships if you want to, that’s your choice. And you may think women would have a higher rate of success, but if a man is with other men he might reject you just bc other men are around. Also not all women don’t like being approached, if you are being kind and respectful you should not get any hatful reactions lmao

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Anonymous OP 16w

And again, I simply would never approach a man bc I like when the man is in change. I could see other women doing it, just not me personally. I don’t have trouble getting men to pursue me so?

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Anonymous #1 16w

I think that’s the issue. Women know they’ll get approached regardless so what’s the point? But men like me know we’ll die alone if we don’t figure out how to step up our game. It’s unfair but I’m not gonna blame women because I’d do the same thing if I were you

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Anonymous OP 16w

“Men like me” oh brotherrrr here we go again

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Anonymous #2 16w

Wdym 😭

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Anonymous OP 16w

Way to generalize and bring yourself down in a pity party dude. Just bc women aren’t approaching you doesn’t mean you have to be so “up in game”. Women just usually never approach in general

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Anonymous #2 16w

I pretty much meant non-very attractive men. And we do have to step up our game, that’s just the hard truth. It seems women have so many options that we have to both take initiative and stand out unfortunately

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Anonymous OP 16w

You don’t you’re just assuming. And it just sounds like incel bait. Women are allowed to have physical traits they like and find attractive. It doesn’t mean every man to exist has to match it bc we all like different things

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Anonymous #2 16w

I never said you weren’t allowed to. But there’s certainly not nearly as many women who like overweight men. So imma give myself the best chance I can by getting lean and hopefully toned after that 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous OP 16w

Plenty of women do. We all don’t like the same archetype of ppl

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Anonymous #2 16w

Not in my experience lmao. But anyways not even just looks I mean as a man you have to get rejected dozens of times for one yes, you have to be funny and good at flirting and reading the room and all that stuff. It’s f-ing difficult. A lot of women don’t understand that

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Anonymous OP 16w

No it’s not? Being a decent human being that respects boundaries and knows social cues to not bother ppl that look like they don’t want to be bothered should not be that hard. And it’s not even a man thing. It’s a human thing to not bother ppl if they are not wanting to be bothered. If you’re making it seem difficult you may be the problem

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Anonymous #2 16w

And rejection is normal for any party

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Anonymous #2 16w

Okay I’ll give the whole boundaries thing to you, but everything else my point still stands. And no most of you don’t know what it’s like to be rejected countless times (and often getting rude or harsh comments too). Even if you have asked someone out (which most of you haven’t) and got rejected, it’s still doesn’t compare to being rejected dozens of times without a yes

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Anonymous OP 16w

How? Rejection is rejection

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Anonymous #2 16w

It chips away at your ego slowly each time. And unlike with women, we know that if we don’t keep trying no one will ever come to us and we’ll stay single forever

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Anonymous OP 16w

Literally none of that is true so idk why you keep using we and us to make you feel better about your insecurity

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Anonymous #2 16w

Yes it is 😭

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Anonymous OP 15w

It’s not hope this helps

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Anonymous #2 15w

Lol sybau

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Anonymous #2 15w

You sound like a dumbass tbvh

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Anonymous #3 15w

Who are you

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Anonymous #3 15w

The only dumbass is you. So hope this helps!

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Anonymous #2 15w

Lol whenever you think of writing “hope this helps” just stop because its boutta be the most useless take

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Anonymous #2 15w

A bystander who observed how low iq you are and couldnt help but to call it out

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