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I’m talking to this girl, and she is the sweetest nicest most adorable girl i’ve met in a while and i’m seeing her this weekend, i’m taking her to dinner and ice cream. i want to be genuine and a gentleman but i’m extremely shy any advice?
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Anonymous 1w

Fr just be yourself. Do little things like hold doors for her, maybe compliments if you are feeling brave enough for that. It’s the little things that count. Enjoy your time with her :)

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Anonymous 1w

Nah bro that’s cute asf, be yourself. I guarantee she would not have agreed to see you if she didn’t like that shy side

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Anonymous 1w

give her little compliments, open her doors including car doors, pull out her chair, let her order first, ask her questions about herself and be an active listener, ask her if she wants u to take any pictures for her, u got this

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Anonymous 1w

Don’t be afraid to fuck up cuz when it’s obvious about how you feel even if it makes you shy WE LOVEEEE

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Anonymous 1w

Don’t be afraid to admit that you’re shy/nervous. She’ll appreciate your honesty a lot, especially since sometimes when a girl goes on a date with a guy and he’s shy she can misinterpret the behavior and think he doesn’t like her.

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Anonymous 1w

Make sure to ask her questions about herself and mention small things she’s said in previous conversations so she knows you’re actively listening!

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Anonymous 1w

Wrong era buddy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

i second this!! opening doors for her is so huge the small details matter a lot

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

ofc! i try to be as courteous as i can. i also don’t wanna be the kind of date to just be in their phone or no talk sooo yeah but i think i can hold a conversation 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Wdym 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Every guy starts out thinking about love and mutual respect. Soon to find out it’s totally ruthless. There’s a number of reasons for this but primarily the internet and a certain type of culture where women have decided to basically never settle on a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

yeah dating is complicated, and the internet definitely changes how people interact but saying women are settling and all dating as ruthless is a stretch a lot of ppl value love, respect, and compatibility, online or offline. treating people like individuals instead of a monolithic culture usually works better.

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