Ask Women on Yik Yak | Why was he unattractive? Despite what society says: long term relationships are almost always a personality draw. Looks are only really a deciding factor when going short term/hookups/ deciding who to try to talk to at first.

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Ask Women 1d

Why was he unattractive? Despite what society says: long term relationships are almost always a personality draw. Looks are only really a deciding factor when going short term/hookups/ deciding who to try to talk to at first.

Ask Women 2d

Ladies, if a guy who was unattractive or very unattractive to you. Has a major glow up. Would you slide back into his dms?

Anonymous 1d

I disagree. Looks are always a deciding factor for me personally. Yeah a good personality is the most important when I choose a long term partner. But ultimately they also have to be someone good enough looking I’m attracted to them. And yes, personality makes someone more attractive. But it can only do so much.

Anonymous 1d

Would you date him?

Anonymous

#1 1d

The problem is that most guys will use looks to flaunt accountability. The ugliest men alive still found girlfriends so that literally proves it’s a you problem if u can’t find one…

Anonymous

OP 1d

True

Anonymous

OP 1d

But I mean looks do matter because it translates into comfort ability. Heck I’ve known and loved girls who were objectively attractive but I just never saw myself sleeping with or dating them but gosh if you looked at their instagram they are such beautiful queens (I’m talking 15/10 attractive)

Anonymous

OP 1d

Yeah I mean they very much matter differently to everyone but I don’t like how we try to act like they don’t matter for long term relationships, because for a lot of people, like me, they matter almost (though not quite as much) as personality

Anonymous

#1 1d

Good point