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why does body count matter? like to men and women respectfully. lots of people have high sex drives? what do you expect them to do masturbate all the time like 😭 asking this as a women too
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Anonymous 14w

Doesn’t matter imo as long as you’re being safe and getting tested

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Anonymous 14w

doesn’t matter to me personally. but i can understand someone who is a virgin or has like 1 body being hesitant to have sex with someone who has a ton of experience - and vice versa. i think this is okay as long as you aren’t being judgmental towards the other person

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Anonymous 14w

i would only start to be concerned if it's in the multiple hundreds simply because i'd want to know if there was some sort of addiction/compulsive thing going on. but even then if i care about them i'd just want things to be communicated openly. i just want to know what the deal is. if i'm your current "body" idgaf about who came before (pun intended)

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Anonymous 14w

Like 1 said it doesn’t matter that much to me as long as you’re willing to communicate and listen to me about what I like and are free of STDs

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Anonymous 14w

As long as no STD’s couldn’t care less

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Anonymous 14w

If you care about someone’s history I think people just need to start asking for peoples history instead of just a number. That number alone doesn’t tell the story.

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Anonymous 14w

Bc I still want someone to match mine. I prefer to not have a person with a high body count it doesn’t align with me and can possibly show impulse or no commitment at the current moment

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Anonymous 14w

I don’t believe body count does matter. As long as they are STD free that is all that matters.

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Anonymous 14w

HIV can still take half a year or more to show up on a test after exposure

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

If I meet a perfect match for me and find out they’re a virgin or have fucked 50 people I’m not going to care about that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

also caveat i think it’s not okay to be hypocritical and deny someone who has a high body count if you also have a high body count bc that is just weird. but i understand wanting similar levels of experience just for comfort purposes

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14w

Like let’s say it’s 10. Maybe they had 10 hookups in the past year. Maybe they haven’t had sex in years or just got out of a multi year relationship and that is all from a few relationships then hookups years and years ago.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 14w

and frankly i see myself being open to open relationships so like... the numbers don't matter as long as we're communicative, honest and loving

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