Anonymous #1 17h

Like that definitely wasn’t the issue cause it was rather slippery down there

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Anonymous OP 17h

HAHAH

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Anonymous #2 17h

Yeah, but like that was not the department we were lacking in

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Anonymous OP 17h

I mean it shouldn’t hurt if you’re comfortable. If you’re tense it’s gonna hurt more

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Anonymous #2 17h

I don’t know I think my guy is just huge and very girthy

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Anonymous OP 16h

That has nothing to do with comfortability. Unless your canal doesn’t stretch like it should. Which that would be a case for a doctor to tell you

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Anonymous #2 15h

girl that’s not true. the penis can be so long it hits ur cervix & way too thick where the fullness feeling starts to hurt. you’re blessed to not experience that cuz it hurts

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Anonymous #3 15h

Girl it hurt for me the first 4 times. If you don’t want the advice just say that or don’t crack. Bc what other advice other than doctor and lube do you want? If you’re going to say “nooo that’s not it” idk what to tell you. It should feel relaxed enough to where it shouldn’t hurt after a few tries bc it surely hurt for me as a small person

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Anonymous #2 15h

Idk I think he’s just big and girthy. Well no shit? That’s what the point of the post is so what do you want us to do acknowledge how big he is? It’s not like he can’t just shrink? Some ppl have a comfortability level too some men can genuinely just be too big. The only other advice I can give is resort to more foreplay? It’ll feel better than penetration

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Anonymous #2 14h

sounds like your point here isn’t for lube but more so desensitization, you said it hurt for the first 4 times which means you got battered and bruised up until you built up the tolerance to handle it and got desensitized.. lube is literally a girth problem not a length problem, so my advice is either tell him not to go all in and if he wants to try to go all in then do it slowly or find someone else or use the ohnut or something similar to put less in you, that’s all the advice i have

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Anonymous #5 14h

you’re putting something long in a finite space so eventually you’ll run out of room and that’s what causes the pain, you’ll eventually (probably) become desensitized after a couple of times (don’t quote me on that everyone is different) but if not then yeah you have the steps for advice from everyone here

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Anonymous #5 14h

No I still recommend lube. We tried lube after realizing it’s just not an easy slip size wise and it felt fine. But also taking things slow and communicating if things hurt to stop and address where any pain or discomfort comes from. Like #4 said it’s something you’ll likely need to get used to it’s not going to suck the first few times

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Anonymous #2 14h

It’s not an easy fix but it’s communicating it that’ll fix and trying things to make it easier not just saying “ugh it’s cuz he’s big I hate big dicks” bc we’re all different. It’s not saying OP did not find it enjoyable. Just uncomfortable which is normal btw. It’s not like he’s a problem he can’t just control his size

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Anonymous #2 12h

lube is quite literally to fit it in.. op said it’s NOT a GIRTH thing.. it’s a finite space thing so it’s a LENGTH thing so doesn’t matter how much lube you use you’ll never be able to make more space than what you already have, but yes during follicular and ovulation you are deeper than normal and luteal and period you are shallower than usual so just remember that

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Anonymous #5 12h

I said foreplay and stretching would also help girl get OFF MY CASE

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Anonymous #2 12h

You can’t speak for OP when I’m literally doing it from MY experience as well. It can also be looked at medically which I CLEARLY stated

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Anonymous #2 12h

They literally mentioned he’s girthy like do you not read? SHE can be lubricated and he can’t. Just bc it didn’t work for you doesn’t mean it’s void advice a bunch of things are to be considered here it lacks a lot of context

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Anonymous #3 11h

You’re nerfing him??

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Anonymous #5 11h

didn’t even dm like just based on my comments they blocked me

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