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Anonymous 3w

It's better to break things off early on because of extreme difference such as this. Staying will only make you miserable and maybe even resentful of her. Look like the bad guy as long as you aren't leading her on in the end

Anonymous 3w

dude a month is nothing. just say you had the wrong impression and move on

Anonymous 3w

If people ask, you don’t even have to say that she didn’t want sex and you did - you could say you realized you wanted different things in life and parted ways

Anonymous 3w

Yea you gotta break up :/ not fair to either of you to stay, it’s a minimum for you and it’s fine she doesn’t want to, but that’s not something to negotiate

Anonymous 3w

just sounds like you might be incompatible

Anonymous 3w

it’s only been a month so it’s best to cut it off as soon as possible, u both want different things and won’t be satisfied or happy together. Find someone who is into stuff that you’re into. She’s changed her mind so u can change urs but don’t be too harsh about it

Anonymous 3w

Hm. Sometimes people agree to things that they think they are into or they believe they will adjust to— just to be with the person they like. It doesn’t sound like there any easy decision, especially if you have feelings for her. Have you brought this to her attention recently, explaining that your language is something that you yearn for in a relationship? Everyone has their love language and I would go crazy too if mine wasn’t reciprocated.

Anonymous

#3 3w

^^^

Anonymous

#8 3w

I do not plan on being harsh at all. The issue is I’ve known this lady for a while. I know how she is. Plus we’ve both built an emotional connection which only makes things worse. Despite her completely changing her mindset she’ll still look at me as the bad guy if I leave her for this reason. It’s just how she is. But I feel like it’s best to do this rather than force her to have s3x with me. Or just pretend that I’m happy when im not

Anonymous

OP 3w

yes exactly, and so what if she sees you as a bad guy for a while, she’ll most likely only be feeling like that because she’d be upset but everyone moves on and forgets and soon enough she’ll have a guy who is fine with the whole no s3x idea. Ur just not her guy

Anonymous

#8 3w

you can say "sex" on here. be big kids.

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Anonymous

#4 3w

it gets removed sometimes

Anonymous

#9 3w

OP even typed it in the screenshot. you're just used to censoring yourselves for tiktok or whatever

Anonymous

#4 3w

I just downloaded this app today I have no idea what sensors and what don’t

Anonymous

#8 3w

Them downvoting you for being cautious is wild

Anonymous

#3 3w

I just hate the rampant self-censorship on social media today. People started doing it on Tiktok because of "the algorithm" and now you have people sincerely saying shit like 'unalive'

Anonymous

#4 3w

Yea but thats bc TikTok will literally shadow ban or remove your video because they deem it inappropriate. Its not up to us its up to the platform. I am all for free speech but I think its okay they were being cautious as to not have their comment deleted or possibly banned temporarily

Anonymous

#3 3w

I don't use tiktok but I use other platforms that do not do those kinds of content moderation and I still see people self-censoring. I'm not debating whether it's "necessary" on TikTok but the problem is that it has actually changed people's vocabularies.

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Anonymous

#4 3w

I just don't understand why its a big deal? Let people censor if they want to, you understood what they said at the end of the day

Anonymous

#3 3w

Why dumb down your language for no reason?

Anonymous

#4 3w

I downloaded this app yesterday, I didn’t know if I’d get a warning or censored. The guy above done it so so did I out of caution

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Anonymous

#8 3w

That's reasonable