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How important is it to agree with your partner on everything? My boyfriend has opinions on literally everything, from political to cultural to moral, and it's hard because it's humanly impossible for us to have the same view on EVERYTHING.
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Anonymous 1d

I think it’s good to disagree in some areas as you don’t want to date a yes man and never become a better person. That said there are some lines politically that are made sometimes that can tear apart a relationship. Like if my partner hated women I wouldn’t want to date him

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Anonymous 1d

i don’t think anyone in a relationship 100% agrees with everything their partner believes. as long as you guys agree on the “dealbreaker” things (will be different for everyone but like kids for example) then you should be fine

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Anonymous 1d

No one needs to agree on everything, just the things that are important

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Anonymous 1d

Like I’ve never once heard him say a bad word against minorities but then he also has mentioned “gay race communism” so like????

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

very well said

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

uhhhhhhhhh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

girl run

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

This coming from a guy who also loves other cultures and wants to learn as many languages as possible to further connect with understand and appreciate others

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

doesn't sound like it!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3h

Did he say it fr or silly style. Bc that changes a LOT. Like, I’d say that type of stuff but I’m also queer so it come off different

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2h

He said it like he was annoyed

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1h

I know, which confuses me, because he loves anthropology and says that every living thing deserves to be protected because of its inherent right to exist, from endangered animals to habitats to ethnic groups to cultures and their unique dialects.

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