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What do you Think of this quote from Lynn Toler of divorce court: don’t perform wife duties at girlfriend prices?
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Anonymous 1w

Agreed

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Anonymous 1w

What is that supposed to mean?

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Anonymous 1w

Depends on how you define “wife duties.” Usually you use how someone is acting while dating to decide if you marry so intentionally withholding certain healthy relationship stuff isn’t gonna lead to anything fruitful. Neither is doing things without healthy boundaries or reciprocity though. I’d focus on THAT more than “widely duties”

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Anonymous 1w

Agreed. It just sets already high expectations in your relationship without the title

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Anonymous 1w

Yes never settle never get married. This is how this disdain is turning out

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Anonymous 1w

Then how does he or anyone know you are wife material if you don’t demonstrate at least once you can perform wife duties.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Same way someone demonstrates girlfriend/boyfriend material when they’re not dating.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Which is what demonstrate before and then it’s brought to the next stage, so in the girlfriend and boyfriend stage you have to demonstrate why you are worth the next stage.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 1w

Don’t act like a wife when you’re only a girlfriend getting the bare minimum

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