Just leave and stop hanging out with them. Thats the easiest way. Its hard to do, but in the end you'll be happier

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Cold turkey is unfortunately the best way, stop answering and seeing them no exceptions, dont block them if you really wanna leave the door open but personally Id advise against it

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Anyone you still like let them know how you feel first. If there’s people like that. If not? Tell them how they are racist and be straight up about it. Doesn’t matter if it’s on the phone or in person. And leave. The things I’ve said before were things I’ve done when leaving a friend group, talking about how they hurt me and talking to the person who I still liked. But do whatever you feel is best. They sound like horrible “friends”

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1. They make me feel stupid all the time. 2. One of the people in the group sexually harassed me and they still hang out and I’m pretty sure they think I’m dramatic for being upset 3. Im already super insecure so being a round them doesn’t really help 4. I feel like im always being invalidated but I let it slide because I don’t want to be alone. I don’t have anyone else 5. I keep learning more about the extended freind group and they’re problematic but they choose to ignore it and stay friends

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Call them out for their behaviour and then never reach out ever again. Say what you deserve/need to say and then block them

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Stop showing

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Just ghost them and don’t talk to them

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I left without speaking to them. You don’t have to give an explanation if they are aware of why you don’t speak to them anymore. They know how their actions affect others.

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