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Ask Women 8w
Women of ask women, I need help, I’m trying to understand what a girl means when she says “I can’t get to the emotional level to be bf/gf” I really care about this girl and I am scared I did something to push her away. Please help me
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Anonymous 8w

could be a number of things, but it sounds like it has more to do with her mental/ emotional state than you. vulnerability can be hard for people, maybe she’s not doing well right now and doesn’t want to commit to that type of, well commitment

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Anonymous 8w

It could be an issue with commitment or it could be about trust…maybe both

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Anonymous 7w

Nah, she just have commitment issues and/or is unwilling to commit to you!

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 8w

But how do you go from coming over to someone’s house and saying I don’t wanna go home to later that week saying I’m not sure I feel like I can get there

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Anonymous 8w

this isn’t helpful

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

it doesn’t mean she doesn’t care about you, it just means she’s not in the right place for that kind of commitment.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Just calling it like I see it.

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