Anonymous #1 15w

Personally I hate open ended date suggestions, I get decision fatigue and just want someone to give me a direct suggestion sometimes (especially if I don’t know them that well yet)

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Anonymous #1 15w

Well we hung out couple of times and she doesn’t like much. So…i went with “would you be opposed to me taking you out on a date?”

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Anonymous OP 15w

Please tell me i am not cooked

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Anonymous OP 15w

Wdym she doesn’t like much??

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Anonymous #1 15w

I asked her everything like literally everything we can do fun wise like golf or bowling and she said no. And we have done every other fun thing that i could think off…don’t wanna do the same thing again

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Anonymous OP 15w

Idk the whole context obviously so I could be wrong with this advice, but it kinda sounds like she’s not a very fun person big dawg 😅 it sounds like you’ve tried your best to find common ground and everything

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Anonymous OP 15w

Or she’s not interested? But I definitely know people who don’t wanna do ANYTHING and it’s so lame. Like wdym you don’t want to get drinks and go bowling 💀

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Anonymous #1 15w

Idk fam…she is usually very tired because of her current job. We went out for coffee to hang out for the first time, went for a walk for like an hour. Second time we hung at her place for couple of hours and talked a lot.

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Anonymous OP 15w

you could maybe host a craft night for her? it might be silly but light some candles and make fridge magnets or something, check girls night crafts on tik tok

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Anonymous #3 15w

UPDATE: She said yes to the date we are going sometime this week. I was thinking i take her to a cafe or something because she is pretty hungry around the time we are planning to go. I agree with ur idea of crafting, there was this thing i saw where u make flowers from plastic spoons (transparent) which she would really like.

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