ok and? if the women have a problem with being a easy lay then maybe you shouldn’t be an easy lay

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Exactly I want to know why women expect these men to and why men who say they aren’t attracted to fat women get so much hate

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i just don’t see a problem here, it doesn’t matter if they feel entitled if it’s not gonna happen anyway, or if it does then cool great for them

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 2w

No you don’t understand. I want to know why there is pitchforks when a man says he isn’t attracted to fat women. I mean mfs make him public enemy number 1

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Anonymous OP 2w

Honestly I think it’s because fat shaming went on for so long and it was really bad in the early 2000’s. Being fat is beautiful now 🤷🏼‍♀️ and how dare you not date someone who is fat.

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Anonymous OP 2w

well its kinda rude in general but yeah extremely valid i dont like fat guys either

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No, not at all.

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Anonymous OP 2w

from my experience it depends. they only catch flack when they call them derogatory things and it’s mainly because of the derogatory words that they catch flack. like i’ve never seen “i’m personally not into bigger women” catch flack by regular sane people irl. but of course, when you state you aren’t attracted to them whilst calling them some sort of animal or bitches then yeah, those dudes get called out mainly for that. the only time i’ve seen ppl force it is on twitter and instagram comments

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While I do somewhat agree I see where 3 is coming from. The 2000s does feel like a shift in the media and specifically the focus on the bodies of women like Spears. But either way it went way too far. And that’s bc theres a huge difference. Being thin is only unhealthy when you are on the extreme. Compared to the other end where even the minor examples are still putting themselves at risk

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Your argument doesn’t make sense because I wasn’t comparing years.

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Anonymous #5 2w

We just have a strong difference in anecdotes then lol. Bc in my experience it doesn’t make much of a difference how they say it

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Anonymous hellraiser 2w

no the gym guys when you’re overweight is so real. i’m not necessarily plus size (size 14) but i am overweight and my bf the loml who is infatuated with me is a D1 athlete at a top 25 school, 400lb PR like… and then i have a mutual who is way even bigger genuinely plus size with a guy that lifts as well 😭😭

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Anonymous #7 2w

*any set of people

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Anonymous #7 2w

Lmao idk where you are at but that sure asl isn’t the majority. Ppl who take care of their body more often than not like to be with others who also do. And while I have a long list of complaints abt plus size women. And I feel like if you put in the work you should have the right to set standards, height, weight, whatever. But it seems like every1 is always salty bc a fit man says he isn’t attracted to fat women

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Anonymous OP 2w

I didn’t say the majority, I just said plenty. Also I never mentioned anything about begrudging men for having their own preferences, if muscular men prefer muscular women so be it. I’m just saying that in the same line of reasoning what reason do I really have to be upset if a plus sized woman wants to date a muscular man and he’s actually willing to do it?

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Anonymous #6 2w

Really tho? Imo it’s actually a very important issue bc it affects how men and women see each other. And since both sides think the other is evil right now, it think it’s completely valid to ask why some of y’all get mad at this shit

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Anonymous OP 2w

Random question, how do you feel about plus sized men who have a preference for women who go to the gym?

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Anonymous #7 2w

Well imo it’s far more important to talk abt of the majority rather than plenty. Plenty of ppl fuck horses. But what im going off is the majority. And you are clearly misunderstanding the question. I’m not asking for ppls opinions on fat women’s preferences but I’m asking for those who get upset abt this specific male preference, why?

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Anonymous #8 2w

Well I feel like I’m perfect to talk abt this lol. In 1.5 years I went from almost morbidity obese to healthy weight and muscular. So just as I would say with fat women, you can have your preferences but if you aren’t willing to put in the work you shouldn’t expect much. And men who feel entitled to a gym girl are dumb and men shouldn’t get mad at a fit/thin women who doesn’t want a fat man

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Anonymous #8 2w

Imo #1 is onto something. I do believe also it’s similar with short men who feel like a women should have to shift her standards to what is “fair”

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Anonymous OP 2w

I mean that’s not really how your original question sounded tbh, that’s probably what’s causing a lot of confusion here. But like I said I don’t begrudge anyone for their preferences regardless. I think a decent amount of women will get defensive because first and foremost we just don’t want people to be an asshole about it, but simply preferring someone in similar shape to you (or not) isn’t really inherently bad

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Anonymous #7 2w

Lmao I can understand that I posted it at work lol. I’m curious to see how many women share your last take bc in my experience that isn’t the case

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Anonymous OP 2w

why didn’t you ask the women from your anecdotes? like nobody here really relates tbh. maybe reactions and perceptions are a much more sensitive thing for you, which is normal for some people. i’ve had men bitter that they’re not my preference but like… i move on from that bc it’s words and i’m not physically forced. if it’s on the phone: block. if it’s irl: i distance myself. issue resolved. ‘entitled’ people have and always will exist like lol if not physical, i’ll freely let them go away and-

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Anonymous #5 2w

live their ‘entitled’ life away from me. i don’t understand the huge issue if the primary solution in your life rn is to ignore the noise. now if you got SA or sum… that’s different

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Anonymous #5 2w

Well there could be 1 million reasons I decide to keep my mouth shut. But here is a forum open for questions. And hell, when I asked I didn’t know if y’all were gonna relate or understand. I’m curious to see what percentage of men feel significant social pressure from women when the topic of dating fat women comes up lol

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