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How do I move on from her ever being a possibility? I let myself fall for her too much, because she was the only one that was able to make me feel attraction. Now, it is hard for me to move on because other women really can’t make me feel the same.
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Anonymous 3w

You had an attraction because you got to know her and have become fixated on her. Some folks need the small talk to build to an attraction. Firstly you need to find joy outside of relationships - new hobbies - new friends- new events - then you try dating again relating on these topics. Make sure it’s clear you want long term and genuinely date and get to know them. Dating isn’t easy for most whether its attraction/social anxiety/financial. You’ll figure it out man ain’t no rush

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

True man, but it’s like letting go of a piece of your heart / someone who potentially was on the same wavelength. I never felt this way with other women. Maybe 1 in . Heck maybe even 1 in 100 made me feel like this. I can count on my fingers. Maybe less than 5. These 5 I’d genuinely get to know, without fooling around obviously.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Aye man I’d say you’re already in better numbers in genuine connection than most. Heart break is hard. The best way to get past old memories is to put more memories between them.

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