You had an attraction because you got to know her and have become fixated on her. Some folks need the small talk to build to an attraction. Firstly you need to find joy outside of relationships - new hobbies - new friends- new events - then you try dating again relating on these topics. Make sure it’s clear you want long term and genuinely date and get to know them. Dating isn’t easy for most whether its attraction/social anxiety/financial. You’ll figure it out man ain’t no rush
True man, but it’s like letting go of a piece of your heart / someone who potentially was on the same wavelength. I never felt this way with other women. Maybe 1 in . Heck maybe even 1 in 100 made me feel like this. I can count on my fingers. Maybe less than 5. These 5 I’d genuinely get to know, without fooling around obviously.