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met a great guy on Hinge, started messaging on there, then gave him my # and continued talking. We scheduled a date for later this week and everything was going great. Now, i haven’t heard from him in 2 days and i am worried! Am i Freaking out over nothin
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Anonymous 4w

2 days is crazy idk, could be extra nice and give benefit of the doubt but I wouldn’t.

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Anonymous 4w

You hardly know each other at this point. Sometimes silence is best instead of awkward small talk before the date. Because the date is where you’ll actually get to know each other/ get to the details and see if this is even worth pursuing. If after the date he still distant then I’d say drop him because he doesn’t respect your time and is not invested

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Anonymous 4w

I like to think of all the times that people pick up their phone in a day and how long it takes to send a text. Two days is crazy work. NOR. next man pls

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Anonymous 4w

Life can happen. Wait and see if he reaches out. If nothing happens within a week, I would move in

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I guess, i will say we are both in college and busy with midterms this week

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Yeah, that’s true. Idk he seemed so good :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Move on**

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Super good point!

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