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Ask Women 5w
I’m not trying to generalize women. I promise. But how can you say you’re genuine about feelings, and with no reason turn yourselves off? It’s happened a few times to me. Just stop lying. I want to be told the truth. Just let your no’s be no. Please.
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Anonymous 5w

You can be genuine about feelings for ppl and not be in the mood if that’s what you mean

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Anonymous 5w

So I have disorganized-avoidant attachment but my feelings actually do feel like they have an off switch. All that has to happen for me to go from really into someone to absolutely not is for them to give me the ick somehow. For an in person person I can list all the things I like about them and maintain that relationship. It doesn’t work online.

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Anonymous 5w

Mostly because I lost interest, or didn’t see it going anywhere, or didn’t feel like putting the effort into continuing the connection. I will tell the person though just to cut off any feelings of confusion

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I mean complete cut-offs. Just stop talking as much, if at all. But still make you have a little hope until it’s just dragged on for so long

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

maybe you disrespected her or said something that hurt her. a lot of women shut down emotionally from this but will still have feelings for u

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I don’t though! Everything would be going great. And I try my very best to keep respectful and learn what they like or don’t like. For this most recent woman, I liked her a lot. I didn’t want to mess anything up. But with no warning at all it’s like all “want” to talk was gone. I genuinely don’t think I did anything wrong. But for the longest time, I felt like I was the only possible one to blame for something I never did. Yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Some ppl aren’t that expressive or talkative. It doesn’t mean they hate you. I think the assumptions are usually why ppl like that stop being expressive and give up bc they feel like they need to be lively all the time in order for ppl to like them or feel like ppl know they are interested when they just want to enjoy being in silence sometimes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

have you ever asked about it directly

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