Ask Women on Yik Yak | How to deal w a partner that holds every nice action against you? He’s thrown the nice things he does for me in my face our entire 3 yr relationship. He acts like I do nothing. For ex he got upset that he paid for our food twice in a row but 1/2

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How to deal w a partner that holds every nice action against you? He’s thrown the nice things he does for me in my face our entire 3 yr relationship. He acts like I do nothing. For ex he got upset that he paid for our food twice in a row but 1/2

Anonymous 1d

How I deal with a partner like that? I dump him

Anonymous 1d

Tbh bro he’s not gonna magically realize that he’s an ass and change his ways. Either you suffer through it, or you free yourself. There are many people who will appreciate you, I promise

Anonymous 1d

Before this I paid for our food 4x in a row 1 meal was when we went out with his grandma. He got upset that he took 3 trips to see me when we were not living in the same city (1.5hrs apart) but before this I took 5 consecutive trips to see him & never complained once. We’ve had multiple convos about this but it makes me feel like my efforts are unnoticed & like it’s a chore showing up for me.

Anonymous

#1 1d

He sounds petty and devoid of empathy

Anonymous

#1 1d

Yeah honestly I’m getting sick of this I never feel like I’m doing enough even tho I give a lot

Anonymous

OP 1d

That’s how he wants you to feel. Because then you do a bunch of things for him while he gets to sit on his ass and complain. It’s convenient for him. You deserve better