Definitely, I’m in college and it feels like most guys just want to have sex. I’m waiting for marriage and haven’t found a guy that respects and likes me enough to be happy with waiting. The times where it seems like a guy is genuinely good he starts pressuring me or pushes boundaries.
what lol everyone does. i have so many friends who regularly date older men who they admit are great guys. guys who ARE looking to settle down and my friends only do it so the guys spoil them for a while before they break up with them. and i’ll bet anything that in 10 years they’ll be like “why is it so hard to meet a great guy.” and to be clear, this isn’t meant to absolve men. they do the same thing, claiming they want something serious just to get us in bed. but this post was about women