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Ask Women 21h
No shade but how do I politely tell my bf he kinda sucks at giving head. Like I need to redirect him in some way but idk how to say it without offending him😭😭
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Anonymous 21h

I think ur best bet is to state ur needs and say while u love him dearly , in the oral department, you feel like ur needs aren’t being met. It’s going to be a tough conversation either way but if you keep it “I focused” using I statements, and not “you”statements, you can mitigate some of the damage that comes from that conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 21h

Omg ty😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

It’s hard telling a partner they suck in bed but u deserve to cum and they deserve to b given proper feedback, tomorrow will be a better day gang u got this

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 21h

“Ask Women”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

😜😜😜

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

Tbh man I don’t think you can comment until you’ve give op some advice too But yeah bro, you gotta tell him. Do you know what you do like? Like have you had good oral before, or are you running mostly on guesswork? Bc if you have experience you should tell him exactly how you like it. Make it clear it’s a practice makes perfect kind of thing, and that he doesn’t need to be a god right off the bat. Should be fun, not scary

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

Guesswork lol. I’m usually very open talking abt sex stuff with him but this particularly I feel like could come off as a personal attack on him idk. But also because I don’t know what I would even tell him to do differently I also just don’t know how to bring it up correctly if that makes sense lol

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