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My boyfriend of 4y called my bsf yesterday because someone told him I was cheating. I’m not and haven’t ever. She told him repeatedly that I wouldn’t do that to him and that I haven’t done that bc I literally tell her everything. The rest in the comments>
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Anonymous 7w

He was freaking out calling and texting her just begging for the truth. Little did he know I was there the entire time and was listening to everything he was saying. So I’m obv getting worked up. 1.by the fact he didn’t call me to clear it up. 2. The fact that he believed this random girl that be barely knows and she doesn’t even know who I am. He finally calls me and I go off and turn my phone off bc I couldn’t do it. He called my bsf and I was listening and finally blew up on him and wt the

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Anonymous 7w

Well u didn’t help ur case lol acting like that but u should just sit down and talk with him about it all, calmly, freaking out (even if justified) makes u look like u have smth to hide

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Anonymous 7w

End I threatened to break up with him because the same girl that told him this stuff also posted on her story a picture of my boyfriend with the caption. The aftermath of hugging me. I love him I do but idk what to do. I’ve been with him for 4 years and we have been fine. Yeah we have ups and downs but overall fine. But it’s the fact he doesn’t trust me after 4 years and he believes a random girl over me and my bff. Please give me advice

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Idk man, this sounds like a heart to heart y’all need to have. Here are a couple screenshots I have of dialogue you can use

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Anonymous replying to -> forget_me_not 7w

I feel statements - when x happened it made me feel y because z

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

I mean bff lies for their friends all the time so it’s normal and normal for someone to be worried or maybe freak out if someone said their partner was cheating. If the tables were turned you’d probably be worried or suspicious at least. Just try to really clear it up and don’t be so defensive.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Agreed wrong way to act in this situation (not mature).

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

But the main issue with that is that she has told us together and separately that she has morals and lines that she will not cross. That if either of us cheat and she knows about it she will tell the partner

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Also the question is why does this girl say this about you? Lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

I have no idea. I don’t even know the girl. I haven’t met her or ever spoken to her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

i mean she clearly wants your man lol why else would she say that, especially if she doesn’t know you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

My thought exactly but every time she speaks to anyone that remotely knows me and about this situation tells me that she said she sees him as a brother or a really good friend. She’s talking to someone else. He’s not her type no offense

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

tbh i wouldn’t believe her, women are sneaky

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Either way she’s foul for lying tbh. Just try to work it out with him if you think he’s worth it. I’d also consider putting yourself in his shoes. Your choice

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