Sadly no… honestly it has to be one or the other. If you stay on the medical path, you’ll only be getting out of school by your late twenties ~27. That doesn’t even take into account your residency. Assuming you go the shortest route as a pcp you’ll be a full practicing doctor at 28. Only then could you really focus on dating and having a kid. That puts your pregnancy at around your early 30s…
I’m not sure if medical school is compatible with sahm, but you SHOULD 100% HAVE A BACKUP PLAN. When things go wrong— abusive partner, divorce, partner dies young— moms with no career experience sometimes end up homeless and unable to feed their kids. Get yourself some kind of career experience/training, you might need it.
Yes. Think about how much more informed you’ll be on childcare and healthcare in general. Plus if you pursue the right path you could be securing enough salary to help their future too. And as weird as things have been in this country multiple countries have stated they’ll make the work visa process easier for medically trained individuals. Don’t hold yourself back you can have kids so much later in life than we could before.
How much of a stay at home parent do you mean? I’ve known some nurses & doctors who make enough to have taken 6mo-2yrs off to raise their new child. That’s IF you marry someone who makes enough to do that. But I find it hard to imagine doing both. And if it’s possible, it’ll be really draining for you no doubt.