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I’ve identified as ace my entire life basically, but suddenly I’m really craving to be more physical with people. But now I’m lokey having an identity crisis because am I ace or have I just been conditioned to fear physical intimacy. And why am I horny???
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Anonymous 2w

Fellow Ace here:) Sexual attraction is different than libido. You can have a high sex drive and get horny without experiencing sexual attraction. Plus there are also asexuals who are sex favorable because they enjoy how it feels or the intimacy of it.

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Anonymous 2w

I went through this same thing too ! I understand your panic And it’s completely okay to yearn girly 🙏🙏 honestly I feel like it’s very Human to have moments like this 😁

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Anonymous 2w

Valid 🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous 2w

Ace people can be horny, fwiw

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Anonymous 2w

Don’t be hung up on identity. Do whatever makes you happy. Just don’t hurt people (or yourself) in the process.

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Anonymous 2w

You should go to therapy… men smh…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

This is a girl asking for other girls advice 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

And I stand by what I said

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