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What makes you fall for a guy? What makes you run like hell?
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Anonymous 8w

Fall. Being my best friend. Prioritizing my comfort and affirming me. Run like hell. The opposite. If we can’t sit together and talk and I feel like I need to filter what I say, then we are not good together

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Anonymous 8w

Run like hell: if he constantly talks abt himself and doesn’t ask me questions, self pitying/fishing for compliments Fall: chivalry tbh, im very trad

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Anonymous 8w

Fall for a guy = looks, personality, values, and interests are along the lines I’m open to. He is easy to talk to and relates to me as a regular person. He thinks about what would be enjoyable and comfortable for me (as I would with him).

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Run away = he is so busy seeing me as a woman that he doesn’t see me as a person. he seems to notice my body most of all, or seems to be trying to do the sex math of how many compliments or interactions will get me in bed. Not gross but still unappealing = he treats me with exaggerated chivalry, he treats me like an unattainable angel he can’t be himself around, or something else where he puts me on a pedestal instead of relating like I’m a normal person

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