
simple affections/romance and things that make it clear you listen to/care about her (something like if she brings up a movie she’s wanting to see, get tickets for it OR if you don’t have the money to spend on leisure/gifts bc of other costs a heartfelt gift for an anniversary or birthday like a love letter, handmade photo album, etc.)
that they're clean and act clean. They get haircuts, style their beard, eat healthy, go to the gym or some form of exercise, care about their mental health and social life, no drugs no addictions no excess of pleasures etc. I don't care how much you make or what car you got or how tall you are or if your balding or in a wheelchair.