If your bruising this easily you may have some deficiencies after the weight loss (very normal) please speak with a doctor and get your bloodwork ran.

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But it’s also totally valid to bring up with him and ask him if he could adjust how he uses his hands. And even if you didn’t care much, I think it’s fair to give him the option to be aware. If I were a bruising a partner by accident, I would want to know so that I could adapt my approach .

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Hopefully you’ll gather some good advice here, but this could be a good question for the gynecologist or doctor in general. A gyno has seen plenty of things in their work, and in a broader sense, if your body‘s tendency to bruise has changed, it could indicate health issues to be aware of.

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My man and I attend college and live in different states when not on campus. We have an active (and rough/passionate) sex life. Before summer, I never experienced the bruising. But, over summer I lost 30 Lbs and now bruise after a “medium” experience. I don’t feel pain, we both enjoy our sex life, and overall I am very happy aside from the bruises. He has no idea as I have been covering them up and we do the deed in the dark.

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Is my bruising because of my weight loss? Again NOTHING has changed in the bedroom at all and now I suddenly look like a victim of a mild assault in places he typically has his hands. What should I do? Is there a remedy for this? Do I need to worry him with this, I’m concerned he would feel like he’s hurting me when I legitimately do not feel anything painful while sleeping together.

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