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Sorry if this has been asked a bunch of times, but what is the first thing you notice when you meet a man your age? Not in a romantic context or environment, but just in general.
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Anonymous 4w

How he speaks, does he engage me in conversation with him or does he overrun it, etc.

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Anonymous 4w

They’re immature and usually just start making sexual comments

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Anonymous 4w

if he’s put together or socialized or not. I’m in college and I spent most of my life “fixing” men up, but it was really exhausting and debilitating, so now when I meet a new guy, I just want to know if we’re on the same wavelength about school/life and that I don’t have to mother you, romantic and platonic

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Anonymous 4w

Idk whatever stands out the most about that individual person. Not the same for each person whatsoever.

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Anonymous 4w

whether there's cognition / a light behind his eyes

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Anonymous 3w

Umm. How old the person looks? Usually when I hear anyone’s age, I judge whether they look their age or not. Oh, he looks old for his age. Oh, he looks young for his age. Like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

That’s crazy how that actually happens. Guess their parents didn’t even try lol.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

They need to grow up. I cannot find any decent men my age and what really sucks is that I do want guy friends or even a relationship but every guy that talks to me ends up making me want to puke 🤮

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Idk some of it for sure but when I left home, I really changed as a person. But thankfully I met a lot of great, mature women who helped shape who I am. I think a lot of these guys take this freedom and morph into each other in the worst way sometimes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Same even with high school dudes when they make friends with the worst groups of guys and my aunt is going through that rn with my cousin. She’s an amazing woman and is like I did not raise you like this at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Yess or how he explains things (like condescending or genuine) or when he talks about his mistakes (like understanding whole pic or only blaming the other person)

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

😂

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