Anonymous #1 4w

Loving a woman makes me feel more valued and happy than anything ever has. To be selfless in that way just felt like a part of me was being useful beyond words, being that important to someone was everything

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Anonymous OP 4w

Hm okay, so a sense of purpose/value/usefulness?

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Anonymous #1 4w

Yes

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Anonymous OP 4w

Why don’t you feel valued just in your life? Why do you need a woman to make you feel useful?

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 4w

Nothing I’ve pursued in my own life for myself has worked out or brought me nearly as much purpose and joy. It’s all either fallen apart, just didn’t work out, or I just wasn’t successful.

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Anonymous OP 4w

It sounds like you don’t know who you are outside of relationships. Things sometimes go wrong in life, but it sounds like you are relying on them to feel happiness

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 4w

Yea that sounds about right

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 4w

So do I just pursue my own interests until I eventually feel happy?

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Anonymous OP 4w

Basically you find other ways to be happy without relying on women. Spend time with friends, listen to music, play video games. Do anything that makes you happy

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 4w

Okay, I’ll try it thank you 😊

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