Because it’s not something that I’m comfortable with. The porn industry is exploitative and I have seen one of my friends be berated by her boyfriend for not wanting to get surgery to look like his favorite porn star. If 87% of men watch it then I will not date at least 87% of men

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I’m a guy but I feel like it’s obvious. They probably don’t want their man jacking off to another woman the same way you most likely wouldn’t want your woman fucking another man. Also they might worry men who watch porn would have different, more harmful views of sex

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I wouldn’t have a problem if there was a 100% guarantee it was ethically filmed and wouldn’t affect the way he treated sex. A lot of porn sexualizes minors and minorities, degrades women, promotes unrealistic expectations, and a lot of it involves coercion. Many videos are filmed without the consent of the women, have minors, involve a background power dynamic that is forcing the women into it, involve AI (which is taking from a large data set of women who did not concert to that and potentially

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Everything 1 and 2 said, and I’m perfectly ok with waiting a while to find a more mature man to date

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If you’re in a relationship where you are both free to watch and/or read kinky shit, have at it. If not, then you’re in the wrong relationship so either start a conversation where you redefine boundaries, if that doesn’t work decide if this is something that you can’t do without, and leave. It’s not hard.

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