Men are not a monolith. Of course we are capable of romance and passion. It’s honestly exhausting to have to watch women be jaded by having gooners in their faces all the time and perceived as one of them whenever you try to make a genuine approach. I get why women are losing faith in men but not all men are lustful. I wish i could tell you to let your guard down but honestly I don’t think you should, the right man will be patient with your walls, keep them up and you’ll find him