Anonymous #4 6d

Its because yall treat women like monoliths and are shocked that we don't majority like or enjoy the same things. Some women are gonna like "nonchalant" men and some won't. It doesn't take a genius to understand that.

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Anonymous #3 6d

I think woman often don’t know what they want but they are often bored and disgusted when men show vulnerability

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Anonymous #3 6d

This might be good advice for a sample size of like 3, but I ask out women all the time, and it never goes anywhere. It's a "tried everything on everyone" scenario.

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Anonymous OP 6d

Source? And no you cant count what you see on the internet as a setting stone for all women....

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Anonymous #4 6d

Really, I think it's that y'all don't know what YOU want.

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Anonymous #4 6d

Because the issue is never you right.

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Anonymous #4 6d

If you’re just asking random women out and they don’t know anything about you besides what you look like, you won’t be very appealing to most women. It’s usually men who care mostly about appearance and nothing else

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Anonymous #3 6d

I mean... I really have tried everything at this point. I've done obsessive diagnostics to determine any last issue I could have, rectified it, and here we are still.

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Anonymous #4 6d

Men need to learn that dating isn’t as simple as plugging values into a formula and getting a specific output they want, it involves two people having a mutual attraction for each other and so many different things play a role in that, and it depends on the individual people

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Anonymous #1 6d

Many women don’t want to date men unless they know them personally and like their personality and life goals, so asking out a bunch of random women isn’t going to be very effective unless they only care about looks and like yours

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Anonymous #5 6d

But also like, just treat them like a person? They’re not some magical creature that you need to crack the code of. They’re humans lol just treat them with baseline respect and understanding.

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Anonymous #1 6d

Well I know plenty of women, and well too. None of the individualism ever worked on them... I got flowers in one girl's favorite colors and she went and dated my best friend. Obviously it's not a mathematical formula, obviously I need to tailor to the individual, but that never worked either.

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Anonymous #4 6d

I remember the humiliation I experienced when I asked out the best friend... long ago before I matured to realize you don't do that.

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Anonymous #4 6d

Tailoring to the individual only works if you’re able to tailor your entire existence to their preferences If she’s not into you, she’s not into you, and you can’t force it

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Anonymous #1 6d

You say it’s obvious that it’s not a mathematical formula, yet you’re sharing your disappointment about your formula not working out

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Anonymous #1 6d

This! And theres never a switch up in their methods but women are the problem 😂

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Anonymous #5 6d

Woman are so easily bored and Icked by things tho. You can be respectful and all but even that won’t be enough

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Anonymous OP 6d

Sure, some are. And that’s okay. Not everyone is going to click.

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Anonymous #1 6d

How else am I supposed to express my love an appreciation, aside from special flowers or favorite candies (and obviously more intimate ways later on)? You're telling me that's the wrong idea? I don't change my personality, that's not what I'm saying. Now, I understand the "if they don't like you, they don't like you" part, but the thing that bugs me is that the number is zero... and I'm literally your average white guy, aside from being completely without romantic attention

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Anonymous #3 6d

"never a switch up in their methods" you have no idea 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous #4 6d

Expressing your attraction/love for someone doesn’t mean they’re required to give you that in return. Again, you’re thinking about it like a formula… it’s not

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Anonymous OP 6d

A lot of men are a lot less open minded when it comes to exploring new hobbies and engaging in activities that women like, which makes them seem boring to women Women like partners who care about them for more than their body and makeup

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Anonymous #1 6d

This 100%

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Anonymous #6 6d

Why am i single then

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Anonymous OP 6d

maybe going after the wrong women

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