Would you forgive a family member who stole 2000 USD or the equivalent in your country from you by asking to borrow money from you and lying about having a job to be able to pay you back but they actually had no such job? Under what circumstances?
No, set up an actual payment plan with them and reduce/cut contact. I know family and money can get messy. Hopefully you have something in writing where they agreed to “borrow” not “give” the money