it’s fair to feel that way, i think frankly you should never really feel like you should be nicer to men who seem to be putting you down in conversation. i’m experienced this and i just try to avoid those men. being nicer won’t stop them from treating you like that

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Tbh I have better experiences with men now that I’m mean and openly hateful

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This has genuinely never been a problem for me, idk if it’s bc I talk a lot and have a lot of information ab certain subjects or my confidence. Maybe you need to act more confident?

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i think you may need to find guys who don’t condescend to you… you are right to feel the way you do because who wants to be talked to like that???

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Find better guys

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Try talking smarter

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