
Idek what “the terrible men” are. Just bc you’re in a fraternity doesn’t make you immediately a bad person that’s such an odd and rude way to think. I just wanna go out with my friends and have fun. And I go to black frats as a minority. They’re big on community and the parties are actually really inviting
Could also be the school. Some schools have better Greek life standards in others where the frat isn’t being suspended for hazing or spiking girls. I always attend frats with a public appearance I’d never go to a house party whether it was a frat or any club. There’s no telling what would happen