Yik Yak logo
Download TikTok Instagram X
Yik Yak icon
Join communities on Yik Yak Download
Ask Women icon
Ask Women 1w
Hey just want opinions. I’ve been struggling recently with getting over a boy and I slowly am but I don’t want my friend to get annoyed about me asking for advice on it. do yall ever get annoyed when your friends ask for boy advice/lowkey crash out over
comment

7
upvote 22 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1w

It gets annoying when its all that is ever talked about between the two of you. Just remember they are a friend, not a therapist.

upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1w

It’s only annoying if that’s the only thing you talk about and if you NEVER take advice. Like some girls I would try to listen and help but they would do the same thing over and over again with the guy. Some people just like to have something to complain about and never fix it. But if you’re open to genuine advice and trying to feel better then you’re good. Also if you feel like you would annoy her just ask if it would be annoying if you talked about it. It shows you’re considering your friends

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1w

it gets annoying especially if the guy is not good for you. hearing someone you care about being toyed around by a boy who doesn’t even deserve to breathe near you can be irritating if they truly care about you

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1w

(I don’t constantly text her but she gives good advice so if something happens with him I usually ask for her opinion? But I’m worried to bother her I’ve just been really upset/struggling)

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

See it’s hard now bc I just went back to college so most of our talking is just over text now. When I was home we hung out and would do activities so that’s not all we talked about. Now that I’m here I feel like we just don’t text as much but I do try to text her asking about things going on in her life. She also has a bf so I feel like she goes to him for problems rather than me

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Which to me is a good thing that she doesn't go to you with her issues 🤷🏽‍♀️. As long as this isn't a consistent thing to go to her when you need advice on this situation then you are fine. Also if you ask, take the advice please if its good 😭 i personally hated when friends asked me for the same advice over and over and they never followed through

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I mean I wouldn’t mind if she came to me with problems I feel like there’s a disconnect when my friends have bfs bc I go to them for advice but then they go to their bfs so I never get to reciprocate the advice giving, or at least not as much. I do take her advice when she gives me some I usually don’t do the opposite of what she says so I hope it’s fine

upvote 1 downvote