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Went out with a girl yesterday, came back to watch a movie and makeout. Had a great time and scheduled another date for tomorrow. We texted this morning, but she hasn’t responded now in 8 hours Am I gonna get ghosted / cancelled on, or am I overthinking?
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Anonymous 2w

She could be processing. I do the same thing.

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Anonymous 2w

Busy maybe

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Anonymous 2w

Update: she was kind enough to respond instead of ghosting, saying that I did nothing wrong, but that she isn’t over her ex. Not the ending I wanted, but definitely better than being ghosted

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Anonymous 2w

Went out w a guy the other day and realized I felt nothing with him so I havent been responding as much. Could be this as well

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 2w

What do you mean by processing? I’ve got 2 other people who’ve told me I’m getting ghosted, so I’m getting anxious lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yea I get that, I would feel that way too. In my experience, waiting has helped.

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 2w

Thank you. I’ll find out tomorrow lol, since we have a date scheduled tomorrow night. It would be super disappointing, but all I can do is wait

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Definitely possible, though she seemed to respond quickly before. Then again, could’ve taken a nap, been with friends, phone died - who knows

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I wanna know what happened

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Please (as politely as possible) tell him. It doesn’t actually help anyone to just ghost or slowly disappear without communicating

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

This isn’t helpful at all lol

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 2w

Sadly, she still hasn’t responded, despite the fact that I sent a message an hour or so ago asking if we’re still good for our date tonight. I think I’m cooked…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Throw it out king, don’t take it too rough. You keep going! 💪🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 2w

Thank you. If she just told me “hey we don’t click in x way” I’d be fine. The lack of certainty makes me super insecure, but gotta keep my head up. Rejection happens. Being single is tough lol

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 2w

PS- love your name - those books were so good!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Oh my god! I’ll literally am finishing up the series again. 🙏🏻😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

But I wouldnt mind being friends with him ☹️ but i feel like if i keep talking to him hell get the wrong message

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Understandable but don’t let it get to you. ❤️💪🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 2w

The plot is so good, but it’s also SO HOT 🤭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Absolutely!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I’m happy you got your closure King. Keep going!

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