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Why do I get uncomfortable when I watch movies with my bf and there’s a lot of nudity
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Anonymous 15w

Everyone saying insecurity lmao but it’s normal to not want your man looking at another woman naked and get satisfaction from it. Not that your man should be thinking that way while watching those scenes but what else is he gonna be thinking? I would hate if my man got hard or wanted to have sex because of seeing another woman naked.

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Anonymous 15w

Because it’s basically porn?

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Anonymous 15w

Does not mean your insecure ignore the addicts. I don’t watch porn so I naturally shy away a bit no matter who’s around

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Anonymous 15w

It’s tied to insecurity of some way. It’s not a bad thing, just make sure you bring it up and talk it over so you know his thoughts on it. Ya know, reassurance and all.

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Anonymous 15w

Insecurity

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Anonymous 15w

Nah I stare more than him

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Anonymous 15w

Heterosexual women when insecurity doesn’t just mean incels hating women

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15w

Idiotic conclusion to come to. Theres loads of media for mature audiences that is in fact not porn and shows the body is either risqué or nude sequences. Yes if your partner viewing very normal media like that is causing you anxiety or uncomfortable feelings you are battling insecurity within yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15w

Instead of giving bullshit advice to online individuals maybe become more emotionally aware

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

Some insecurities are natural. Yes it’s a movie and it’s usually not a big deal but if your man is getting aroused from it then it’s normal to feel uncomfortable. I personally think nudity scenes and sex scenes are so unnecessary in movies. We get the idea based on the relationship we see or from a small kiss we don’t need to see all of that. It adds no value to a movie other than gaining views from weirdos who want to watch it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

hm, somehow I hit a nerve on someone I wasn’t even addressing. little odd

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15w

Lmao I got a notification you commented on a post I had already commented on. I read it and responded. Not odd at all 😂 but glad that was your response instead of something actually related to what I said to your comment

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

that clearly says to #4, not you

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15w

Yeah no shit. I didn’t say it was to me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

so why are you replying as if it was to you lol “not odd at all” if you knew I wasn’t talking to you 😂😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15w

Have you never been on the internet before? It’s pretty common that people reply to other replies no matter who it was originally addressed to 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

adding your 2¢ and replying to it as if it were specifically addressed to you are two different things but I digress. yawn

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15w

Again, it’s a common occurrence on the internet. You put in your opinion and I put in mine. Your comment wasn’t to me but I read it and wanted to reply. Simple as that. Having an issue with that is odd.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

yawn

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

Yea he seemed really into the movie and I was uncomfortable bc I also felt the amount of nudity was a bit much in general (I don’t mind a nude scene here and there if it’s brief for the sake of the story but this was a lot) and he said he could tell I was uncomfortable but never suggested we change it till I was like , well I’m not THRILLED to sit here and watch that especially with u…and he got EXTREMELY defensive

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

I also was like well if we watched a movie with predominantly male nudity I sense u would made feel differently? And he was them saying how he trusts my feelings for him wouldn’t change over a movie….which wasn’t what I meant. I won’t expect his feelings to change for me bc a sex/nude scene but that doesn’t change the fact that he as a guy will maybe has a reaction? Idk if this makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

You’re so valid in feeling that way! Obviously your boyfriend isn’t gonna lose feeling for you if he sees another woman’s body but he shouldn’t want to see another woman’s body out of respect. It’s the fact that a man most likely isn’t watching nude women and thinking nothing. They may get aroused or like what they see and that can be hurtful. I wouldn’t want to look at another man naked when I have a bf

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