Everyone saying insecurity lmao but it’s normal to not want your man looking at another woman naked and get satisfaction from it. Not that your man should be thinking that way while watching those scenes but what else is he gonna be thinking? I would hate if my man got hard or wanted to have sex because of seeing another woman naked.
Idiotic conclusion to come to. Theres loads of media for mature audiences that is in fact not porn and shows the body is either risqué or nude sequences. Yes if your partner viewing very normal media like that is causing you anxiety or uncomfortable feelings you are battling insecurity within yourself
Some insecurities are natural. Yes it’s a movie and it’s usually not a big deal but if your man is getting aroused from it then it’s normal to feel uncomfortable. I personally think nudity scenes and sex scenes are so unnecessary in movies. We get the idea based on the relationship we see or from a small kiss we don’t need to see all of that. It adds no value to a movie other than gaining views from weirdos who want to watch it.
Yea he seemed really into the movie and I was uncomfortable bc I also felt the amount of nudity was a bit much in general (I don’t mind a nude scene here and there if it’s brief for the sake of the story but this was a lot) and he said he could tell I was uncomfortable but never suggested we change it till I was like , well I’m not THRILLED to sit here and watch that especially with u…and he got EXTREMELY defensive
I also was like well if we watched a movie with predominantly male nudity I sense u would made feel differently? And he was them saying how he trusts my feelings for him wouldn’t change over a movie….which wasn’t what I meant. I won’t expect his feelings to change for me bc a sex/nude scene but that doesn’t change the fact that he as a guy will maybe has a reaction? Idk if this makes sense
You’re so valid in feeling that way! Obviously your boyfriend isn’t gonna lose feeling for you if he sees another woman’s body but he shouldn’t want to see another woman’s body out of respect. It’s the fact that a man most likely isn’t watching nude women and thinking nothing. They may get aroused or like what they see and that can be hurtful. I wouldn’t want to look at another man naked when I have a bf