i mean fetishization is different than just general attraction tho, fetishization crosses into dehumanization/objectification. idk! if you see a beautiful woman and ur not actually bothering/harassing her idt there’s necessarily anything wrong. like it’s not illegal to think a woman is hot/sexy/beautiful/pretty/cute etc.

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It’s not wrong to notice something but don’t stare or anything. The beauty standard is high because companies make money off of people feeling shitty about themselves. It’s not enough to make you feel bad about how other people see you, they want you to see yourself as disgusting and needing to change. They invent insecurities and once people start to conform enough where they’ve sold their trainings, supplements, surgeries, etc. they swing the other way so you have to pay even more.

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i just dont know how okay looking is considering wearing clothes doesnt imply consent. so at what point is it okay to look? never? these are pants that engineered to be complimentary to a butt. the pants obviously dont invite harassment or flirtation of any sort, thats not what im saying. if i can never look, then why is the beauty standard set at something unrealistic and why is it something weve fed into?

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