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When a woman says that a guy was too eager to date her (and is subsequently not interested), what does she mean by that? Are us guys supposed to act like we don’t gaf and aren’t excited to try a relationship out with someone?
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Anonymous 5d

If a guy is “too eager” it could be a lot of things but the first things that come to mind is that he was being a bit to desperate and showing it. A relationship built from someone just wanting another person to want another person rather than to work as a team isn’t the most stable foundation.

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Anonymous 5d

in my experience it’s more like a guy who is too forward too fast for my comfort, like please don’t tell me you love me after knowing you for 3 days of knowing each other

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Anonymous 5d

when my friends and I have said something like this about guys it's because we can tell they just want sex.

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Anonymous 5d

People like mutual things. Balance. And your eagerness was not in balance with hers. The best relationship is one where you both like each other similar amounts, right? It’s uncomfortable if you’re mildly interested and the person you’re with is too obsessed.

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