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Ask Women 8w
Bruh. A while ago she told me she’s tired of liking a certain type of toxic dudes, and that she wants a relationship with a (insert oddly specific type that I fit into). And she folded under zero pressure to another toxic dude. I’m so freaking exhausted
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Anonymous 8w

Believe what ppl do more than what they say

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Anonymous 8w

I have a friend like this, it's hard sometimes to get out of the cye of dating shitty men. We accept the love we think we deserve

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Anonymous 8w

Honestly, as someone who has had friends repeatedly get into bad relationships, it’s supper frustrating to watch and can absolutely get exhausting. You have to be patient with them but also call them out when they are repeating the same harmful behaviors. She should definitely get into therapy and stop seeing this current guy, but I think if you like her it would be a good idea to make it clear to her that you are interested.

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Anonymous 8w

sounds like denial tbh

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Anonymous 8w

Remember your girth size king move on

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Anonymous 8w

Yep females are delusional

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Anonymous 8w

I can’t believe this is has survived 20 hours in here, let alone in positive votes. Lmao are you a wizard?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Sometimes also someone is tired of something but it’s what they’re used to do they default to it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

100% it takes work to get out of your comfort zone but it’s easy to stay in em especially when it comes to romance cuz there’s no many other factors

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

"females" 🤓

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 8w

Part of the reason she might be going with the toxic guys is because they aren’t thinking about how long to wait before making a move and she needs to feel pursued and loved when she’s getting over heartbreak, it’s not a great coping mechanism so you might want to talk to her about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 8w

But if it’s too emotionally draining for you, that’s absolutely okay. You don’t owe her counseling or anything and it’s okay to leave for your own sanity.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 8w

Why wouldn’t it have? There are women who have these unhealthy patterns—and men who do, for that matter—when it gets downvoted is when when someone acts as if it’s all or most women who do

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