Couple different options 1. She likes her comfort zone, knows what to expect 2. She doesn’t want to ruin a close friendship 3. You aren’t the “nice guy” you think you are 4. She might be struggling with self respect issues, and think she doesn’t deserve you/she deserves how her ex treats her and she might need to work on herself/try therapy

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Likely it has little to do with you, she might have unresolved feelings that are more heart-centered and built into her nervous system than brain-centered. Those are harder to get rid of yk

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We expect the love we think we deserve

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There’s probably reasons and things she didnt like about you but was too scared to tell you bc she didnt wanna be mean

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Creatures of habit

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