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Im a guy and I’ve been really good at jumping into relationships. I stopped dating for around 2 years to just work on myself. That being said I have a shot with a lovely woman but it’s different than what I’m used to and I’d like some good pointers. Ty!
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Anonymous 10w

Please for the love of god be sure of her. Do not go into a relationship and make someone fall in love with you if you can’t give that back. And if there is any problems, doubts, ect. Talk with each other. Being able to sit down with someone to see what’s going on, why they think they way they do, can help a lot of problems.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Let go of ego and pride if you really care, relationships Soften the heart. Come from a place from of place of care.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

That’s why I’m trying to go about this to get to know her I’m not wanting to jump in feet first and I mean I want to do well with this because I do genuinely care. It’s just different than how I’ve experienced relationships prior. If that makes sense.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

And thank you I will keep this all in mind!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Yeah man I wish you the best! Just remember to be gentle with yourself and her. It’s a learning curve! Stay when the going get hard! (Not toxic) and stay when it’s awesome! Things change cause of life, it get boring and mundane. But that doesn’t mean the love or care is gone :) don’t ever stop actively chasing her even if you get her. Talk about for both of you how you need to feel love like language ect.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Ive been in relationships but I can’t say that I’ve been on dates to build into them. I have wanted to but it’s very different than what I’m use to. I don’t want to mess up and how different an approach like this is for me it’s intimidating.

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