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What would you do if you saw your bf texting another girl like 4-5 times a week and sometimes call but he claims she’s a friend but also says she likes him?
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Anonymous 8w

I would kindly ask him to not be friends with a girl who has a crush on him at least until she moves on 😅 that’s just disrespectful to Me if he wants to engage in that, it shows he craves attention from women more than the connection you have

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Anonymous 8w

I’d ask him to set some boundaries down and respect our relationship

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Anonymous 8w

Tell him to stop the calls bc that crosses a line of too much closeness. Tell him if he knows she likes him then there needs to be more distance between them and a lot less texting because otherwise it comes across as more than a friendship. Tell him you need him to prioritize your boundaries and feelings otherwise there’s no point of being with him.

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Anonymous 8w

I personally wouldn’t care

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Anonymous 8w

Break up with him.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

“Me” as in the partner of the relationship not like me myself does that make sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

ok this is exactly what i did. thank you!! im hoping he follows through but i dont know. we r long distance so i cant tell but he said he blocked her

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

what specific ones would you say? i said i dont like you talking to her on the phone and texting that much. i also dont like that she’s asking you to hang out bc idk if you guys have or not since we are long distance

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

If he doesn’t want to it’s not worth it. He should value your feelings and want to respect you.

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